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一个人的命运，取决于他的思想认识和人生态度。20几岁的你，如果能以成熟的、经历了社会检验的阅历选择人生，必然会少走不少弯路。如果能早一些认识现实，消解身上的生涩、偏执和意气，成功就会来得更顺畅一些。有些事，年轻时不懂，当明白的时候，已没有机会。有些事，年轻时不做，当想做的时候，已无能为力。《20～30岁，你拿这10年忙什么》可以帮助20几岁的读者，让我们不必用烫伤自己的方法去体验火的炙热；也可以让我们在陷阱面前适时止步，做出明智的选择。让十年之后的你，感谢现在明智努力的自己！
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二十几岁的生命，活力四射，生机勃勃；二十几岁的人生，充满机遇，富有挑战，二十几岁，面临着人生诸多角色的变化，面临着许多选择，二十几岁无疑会决定人的一生，本书旨在指导二十几岁的年轻人活出自己，活出心情，处理好二十几岁时人生应该重点面对的问题。让你在品生活的艰辛、困苦、压力的同时，拥有良好的处世心态，使你的人生在追求完整和完美的过程中熠熠发光。
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第1 章 时间都去哪儿了，别让自己再迷糊了 ·································· 1
认清现实的现状，重视生存的能力 ··········································· 2
不因年轻而高傲，现实要求脚踏实地 ········································ 4
准确定位，用自己的特长求发展 ·············································· 7
安于现状，生活只会是一潭死水 ·············································10
走过的是路，没走过的是人生 ················································13
无悔青春，勇于尝试新的体验 ················································15
别让将来的你看不起现在的自己 ·············································17
人生选择环境，环境推进人生 ················································20
思考致富而不是努力工作致富 ················································22
多点自省，洗去浮躁与冲动 ···················································24
时间是一条河，别在岸边看它流逝 ··········································26
第2 章 谁的青春不迷茫，金子也需把自己磨光 ······························29
你或许还不是金子，但要成为发光的种子 ·································30
面对浮华的尘世，要有自己的主见 ··········································32
不要怕找不到出路，要有明确的思路 ·······································34
处在事业的起点，要寻找命运的拐点 ·······································36
要有职业定位，但别让工作把你定型 ·······································38
你会有求于人，但要相信命由己造 ··········································40
没有人比你更重视你自己 ······················································42
即使屡遭打击，自己也先要鼓励自己 ·······································44
第3 章 此时你若不去勇敢，未来谁能替你扛 ·································47
别担心自己会失败，迈步路就会在脚下延伸 ······························48
别担心自己无能，最优秀的人就是你自己 ·································50
别担心自己经验少，要学会经营你的优势 ·································52
别担心自己没机遇，创造财富需要慧眼 ····································54
别担心自己没人帮，贵人要靠自己寻找 ····································56
别担心自己没创意，勇于尝试就有机会 ····································58
别担心自己没帮手，共赢才会有发展 ·······································60
别担心自己不专业，有想法就有出头的希望 ······························62
第4 章 即使是不成熟的尝试，也胜于胎死腹中的空想 ·····················65
本来无望的事，大胆尝试就能有所突破 ····································66
消极悲观的话语，会粉碎你内心的希望 ····································68
只要勇于开始，永远都不晚 ···················································70
上帝的延迟，并不是上帝的拒绝 ·············································72
走自己的路，让别人说去吧 ···················································74
选择你所喜欢的，喜欢你所选择的 ··········································76
人生所有的时间里，“现在”是最棒的 ····································79
从小步开始，增加“走出大步”的可能 ····································81
要为成功找方法，莫为失败找理由 ··········································83
第5 章 不是忙碌就有收获，重要的是找到合适的方向 ·····················87
忙而不乏味：让自己的职业与兴趣结合 ····································88
忙也要会思考：认清自己想要的是什么 ····································90
忙也要有道理：忙要忙在点子上 ·············································92
忙也需有章法：有理可依、有据可查 ·······································94
忙而有序：把重要的事放在第一位 ··········································96
忙而有效：做事果断决策、善始善终 ·······································98
忙而不盲目：做自己熟练而擅长的事情 ·································· 100
忙而有乐：工作与生活都要当赢家 ········································ 102
第6 章 理清思路找到出路，别甘心成为大多数 ···························· 105
按图索骥画不出精彩人生 ···················································· 106
让思想无限接近零缺陷 ······················································· 108
别总跟“志趣相投”的朋友一起 ··········································· 110
时常拧一拧思想的发条 ······················································· 113
依靠他人，永远不能成就杰出的自己 ····································· 115
自我特色是赢得竞争的砝码 ················································· 116
不要淹没在潮流中，要让自己与众不同 ·································· 119
拐个弯会省下更多的时间和力气 ··········································· 121
最合适你的，才是真正最好的 ·············································· 123
敢于走在人先，才能赢在人前 ·············································· 125
走自己的路，才能走别人没走过的路 ····································· 127
第7 章 树立你的目标，让自己拥有拼搏方向 ······························· 129
越是卓越的人生越是志向的产物 ··········································· 130
淡漠是半个死亡，愿望是半个生命 ········································ 131
目标清晰明确，盯着目标前行 ·············································· 133
从小目标开始，实现大目标的突破 ········································ 136
先为目标付出，目标只成就不可或缺的人 ······························· 138
用目标给人生带来无穷的力量 ·············································· 141
梦想从身边触手可及的地方寻找 ··········································· 143
第8 章 投资一种时间，年轻就是最大的资本 ······························· 147
提升素质，让你的辛苦换来更大的回报 ·································· 148
把时间用在学习上，是最有价值的投资 ·································· 151
尊重时间就是尊重自己的前程 ·············································· 153
盛年不重来，一日难再晨 ···················································· 156
时不我待，摆脱拖延的恶习 ················································· 159
时间像水珠，一颗颗分散开来就会蒸发 ·································· 163
为了错误去后悔是错上加错 ················································· 165
柳比歇夫的时间统计方法 ···················································· 167
第9 章 下定一个决心，让自己实现诺言 ····································· 171
命运在自己的手里，而不在别人的嘴里 ·································· 172
宁可败给别人，也不能输给自己 ··········································· 174
成功者之所以成功，得益于志存高远 ····································· 176
人之所以能，是因为相信能 ················································· 178
人生的突破，躲在异想天开之后的行动上 ······························· 181
人生的差别，在于能否再坚持一下 ········································ 184
没试过，别以理论解释人生 ················································· 187
命运掷来一把刀，你就要抓住刀柄 ········································ 190
专注做好一件事，不节外生枝 ·············································· 193
从失败中学到聪明，并善加利用 ··········································· 196
第10 章 看准一个机会，命运靠自己转弯 ···································· 199
像下跳棋一样想办法“一步登天” ········································ 200
善于识别时机，学会抓住时机 ·············································· 202
抱怨缺少条件，不然何创造条件 ··········································· 205
别空等万事俱备的时候 ······················································· 208
机遇之门只为有准备的人敞开 ·············································· 211
“秀”出自己，赢得机遇的倾心 ··········································· 214
机会与诱惑总会如影随形 ···················································· 216
机遇总是光顾那些善于决断的人 ··········································· 218
醒目地亮出自己而非坐等伯乐发现你 ····································· 220
愚者才等待机会，而智者则造就机会 ····································· 222
第11 章 拓展一层关系，让自己相交天下 ···································· 225
多结交比自己优秀的人物 ···················································· 226
“贵人”是送你上青云的好风 ·············································· 228
有意识地建立你的朋友网络 ················································· 231
让第一印象抢滩登陆 ·························································· 234
培养与陌生人“一见如故”的本领 ········································ 237
相逢一笑，尽把恩仇了 ······················································· 240
学会保全他人的面子 ·························································· 243
第12 章 坚定一种信念，用最初的心做持久的事 ··························· 247
最大的麦穗，就是身边的那一个 ··········································· 248
人生中最大的敌人是自己 ···················································· 250
为难你的人，其实是你的贵人 ·············································· 252
一个劲敌，在心胸小的人眼里才是羁绊 ·································· 254
竞争并不意味着要打败别人 ················································· 256
小鸭从不介意飞不高，因为游泳它很在行 ······························· 258
家有万贯之财，不如一技在手 ·············································· 261
不盲目执着，放弃需要理智 ················································· 263
习惯若不是最好的仆人，便是最差的主人 ······························· 265
第13 章 白手起家正当时，灿烂人生不是梦 ································· 267
白手起家正当时，灿烂人生不是梦 ········································ 268
处处有黄金，关键在于用心 ················································· 270
雄心和决心是亿万富翁的致富秘诀 ········································ 272
贫穷并不可耻，可耻的是安于贫穷 ········································ 275
在小钱上精明才能培养大富翁的素质 ····································· 278
天上掉馅饼，你必须“站对地方”接 ····································· 280
没有创新的灵感时，不妨先从模仿开始 ·································· 282
利用大家的智慧，赚取无穷的财富 ········································ 285
旁观者的姓名永远爬不到比赛者的计分板上 ···························· 287
互助一年石成玉，合作二年土变金 ········································ 290
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☆ 时间都去哪儿了，别让自己再迷糊了
有许多二十几岁视而不见的东西，往往在三十几岁时才能够发现它的价值。这些二十几岁不以为然的东西，能够在现实的矛盾面前，选择让自己不后悔的一条路，这便是世俗的智慧。让自己变得世俗，才能够做出既符合现实又明确的选择。
认清现实的现状，重视生存的能力
20岁以后，年轻人常把理想放在第一位。目标可以使我们在行进之中不至于茫然失措、三心二意，理想的意义是无限的，但人不能光靠理想过日子，对于二十几岁的年轻人，目前最切实的问题是生存能力的训练。
荒废时光，憧憬理想，无疑只是纸上谈兵。一个人在少年不识愁的岁月里吹着口哨穿梭街头，或许还可以给人青春、阳光的印象，但接近而立之年时，依然在向父母伸手要钱，即使别人不嫌寒酸，自己也觉得苦涩。
纳尔逊中学是美国最古老的一所中学，它是由第一批登上美洲大陆的73名教徒集资创办的。在这所中学的大门口，有两尊用苏格兰黑色大理石雕成的雕像，左边是一只苍鹰，右边是一匹奔马。300多年来，这两尊雕塑已经成了纳尔逊中学的标志。它们或被刻在校徽上，或被印在明信片上，或被缩成微雕摆放在礼品盒中。许多人以为鹰代表着鹏程万里，马代表着马到成功。可是事实并非如此。那只鹰代表的不是鹏程万里，而是一只被饿死的鹰。这只鹰为了实现飞遍世界的远大理想，苦练各种飞行本领，结果忘了学习觅食的技巧，在踏上征途的第四天就被饿死了。那匹马代表的也不是马到成功，而是一匹被剥了皮的马。开始的时候马嫌它的第一位主人——一位磨坊主给的活多，乞求上帝把它换到一位农夫家。上帝满足了它的愿望，可是后来它又嫌农夫给它的饲料少。最后它到了一位皮匠手里，在那里不用干活，饲料也多，可是没几天，它的皮就被剥了下来。
人生对每个人都是一场综合的考验，不会对谁网开一面。书本上的理论掌握的多寡，并不能代表实际能力的强弱。真正能把人从饥饿、贫困和痛苦中拯救出来的，是劳动和生存的技能。那73名教徒把这两尊雕塑耸立在学校的大门口，就是为了时刻警醒学生们。在现实生活中，想得远不是错误，前提是你必须做得踏实。年轻人的浮躁是普遍存在的，具体表现在事情刚做到一半，就觉得要大功告成，开始飘飘然起来。急功近利，只讲速度，不讲质量，看不起眼前的小事，认为如此做不出成绩，没有意义。
他们的兴趣没有被提升起来，挑战自己和别人的欲望也被压抑着。
作为走向社会不久的年轻人，让自己沉下心来进入角色是非常重要的，越早进入就意味着越早步入事业的轨道。每天都让自己成熟一些，浮躁之气自然会减少。
约瑟夫大学毕业时，他决定在纽约扎根并做出一番事业来。他所学的专业是建筑设计，本来毕业时和一家著名的建筑设计院签了工作意向，但由于那家设计院在外地，约瑟夫未经考虑就决定不去。如果去了，他会受到系统的专业训练和锻炼，并将一直沿着建筑设计的道路走下去。可是一想到几十年在一个不变的环境里工作，或许永远没有出头之日，约瑟夫就彻底断了去那里工作的念头。
约瑟夫在纽约找了几家建筑公司，大公司不要刚出校门的没有经验的学生，小公司约瑟夫又看不上，无奈只好转行，到一家贸易公司做市场销售工作。一段时间后，由于业绩得不到提高，身心疲惫的约瑟夫对工作产生了厌倦情绪。但心高气傲的他觉得如果自己单干肯定会更好，于是他联系了几个朋友一起做建材生意。本以为自己是“专业人士”，做建材生意有优势，可是建筑设计不同于建材销售。不到一年，生意亏本了，朋友们也因利益关系闹得不欢而散。
无奈之下的约瑟夫只好再换工作，挣钱还债。由于对工作环境不满意，几年下来，他先后换了几次工作，约瑟夫对前途彻底失去了信心。现在能记得的专业知识已所剩无几，由于没有实践经验，也无法再想做设计了。虽然约瑟夫工作经验丰富，涉足好几个行业，可是没有一段经历能称得上成功……现实的残酷使约瑟夫陷入尴尬的境地，这是他当初无论如何也没想到的。
生活中，输得最惨的往往是聪明人而不是笨人。原因就在于笨人知道自己不够聪明，只能靠苦干、实干才能创造好的生活，最终他们如愿以偿了。而聪明人做事时则不肯下力气，总想着耍小聪明、投机取巧，所以往往输得很惨。因此，智慧和实干相比，实干更加不可或缺。
当一个人陷入“这山望着那山高”的境地时，表示他忘记了理想必须扎根于现实的土壤，结果只能被理想和现实同时抛弃。在人生的路途中会看到许多山峰，但你不可能翻越每一座山峰，得到所有美好的东西。命运对任何人都是公平的，当你为没有得到而苦恼时，还是仔细想一下自己将会失去什么吧！
伟大的哲学家卢梭说过：“节制和劳动是人类的两个真正的医生。”即使每个年轻人都是块好铁，总得经过锻炼才能成钢，就在你为生存而付出的劳动里，锻炼了一切与理想相关的东西，比如自信、尊严、才识和能力。沉重是生活的一部分，我们享受生活的欢乐，也要接纳生活的沉重，因为生命中有一些责任是你必须要承担的，负重前行，脚步才不会太飘忽。
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